Confused Voice: A blog about finding your voice.

  • Change your perspective

    It takes work but you can take a pile of shit and turn it into anything else. It’s a matter of perspective. I think there are a few key ways of looking at it to change your outlook. The arrow of time. Past: I can’t believe this shit happened to meFuture: Shit Happens. Wipe it off.…

  • Forcing something

    Here’s my curious side. The one that loves Exploration and New. Sometimes you have to force “new”. It’s not going to come on a shelf with neon signs pointing at it. It’s not going to have that amazing little red star like dot, and it might not even have the words “new” anywhere in sight. You…

  • Emo Days

    Yes, I get these. I usually keep’em locked away. Not here. Here I should be able to wear my inner black shirt. where is this island, this thought?to find the shore i’ll seek its waves, the ripplesas it moves about like a weighted freighterspewing rusted ruffage, powdery rougethat red whale! for others whiteand when my…

  • The time of the Introvert

    It’s nice that introverts are getting more attention. In the recent slew was this one from the Huffington Post about signs of introverts. Here are the ones that most jumped out at me: You go to parties -– but not to meet people. Downtime doesn’t feel unproductive to you. Giving a talk in front of…

  • Forgetting Too Much

    I forget too much. If yesterday I thought too much, today I’ve forgotten all about the sad things I thought about and am left with a clean slate to think about them again. I have thousands of empty notebooks waiting to be filled. I have tried check-in apps and logs, but again the root is…

  • Thinking Too Much

    I have a problem of thinking too much – it’s sad really. No, really, it makes me sad. Add that to the fact that I work from home, alone, the majority of time, in a small town, and I’ve got a deadly combination. Doing things can break that. Making things can break that. Running can…

  • A Concise Mind

    A Concise Mind I recently had an opportunity to hang around brilliant folks in their fields. Mainly it was wine and food – and ooooohhhhh such good wine and ammmmmazing food. But there was something to their brilliance which had me think about this little quote. “If I had more time, I would have written a…

  • Law of attraction skips ahead, again.

    I understand the law of attraction, and without all the hippy dippy fluffery that surrounds it, it makes sense. You make your world in your mind and things start happening. You want a house — build it in your mind and you start seeing opportunities to make it real. Sci-fi should be a prime example of how…

  • What is this “Confused Voice”?

    What it is; What it isn’t. Confused Voice? Does that mean you “hear” voices? No. I do not hear voices [ right now ]. This is about my personal voice, and being comfortable with who I am. If you want information about how to cope with hearing voices and how to manage, I suggest you look somewhere…

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